It's almost impossible to confront because it's so completely half-assed you almost can't take offense to it without feeling as though you look like a paranoid twit, but we all know what he's doing.

THIS! SO MUCH THIS OMG!

And the thing is that so many guys will not get this. They're not being stalker-ish! They're being friendly! Really! You're overestimating yourself if you think he's interested!

*shudder*

Oh, I'm going to reject it. I only friend people I know from LJ or via real life, with the very occasional and rare exception. Some people I'll friend if I've met them once; but...people who make me feel uncomfortable? No.